
When someone agrees to write a sorority recommendation or letter for your daughter, it’s thoughtful to thank her with a little gift. Writing a strong recommendation or letter takes time, thought, and care and often involves putting her own name and reputation behind your daughter – so while a thank you gift is never required, it is always a kind and gracious gesture!
When To Give Thank You Gifts
Drop off your gift when you deliver your hard copy packet to your recommendation or letter writer.
How Much to Spend
Because many families are thanking multiple women during sorority recruitment, gifts in the $10-15 price range are perfectly appropriate, but spending more is okay, too!

What to Give
Popular ideas include a gift card to a favorite coffee shop, a small potted plant from a local garden shop, a box of treats from a neighborhood bakery, or a small gift for her home. To make this process easier, we’ve gathered a collection of thank you gift ideas for sorority recommendation and letter writers at approachable price points.
Be sure to browse DoSayGive’s Gift Guide for more thoughtful gift ideas!
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