Yes, it is definitely a thing. I think with big parties for smaller children it just takes up so much time to open 20+ gifts. I agree with you, though, I think it is important lesson to learn how to thank someone, say something kind, look them in the eye, etc.. I try to make my children do this whether they are the guest or the child of honor as guests are coming and leaving. As children get older, and parties get smaller, I do think it’s good to open presents in front of guests.

Thank you so much for sharing this! Great idea and what thoughtful friends!

Great post, and timely, for me. My daughter was adopted, so for her January party every year, I include an insert in the invitation envelope that says, “No gifts necessary; your presence is your present. Instead, we’d love it if you’d consider making a donation in any amount in Sally’s honor to our friends at Hope Cottage.” To my shock that 1st year, every sweet friend brought a present (with no card- am sure they thought theirs might be the only one :-), which left me trying to Sherlock Holmes who brought what for thank you’s!
I’ve found there’s no perfect way to pull off a no gifts party, but the awkwardness just reminds me that we are loved and that everyone shows their love in the way that is most comfortable for them- so I keep including my request, and they mostly keep bringing presents (and making a donation as well in some cases) and I smile as I make room for the new toys, or receive the acknowledgement cards from Hope Cottage, and I am thankful for so many and so much!

I love that organization – what a fantastic idea! Thanks for sharing!